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Monday, March 4, 2013

The Bible

 
I wonder how many people were able to make it home Sunday night (03/03/2013) to watch the premier of The Bible on the History channel.  What did you think?  Well I can tell you that Jason and I were very excited about the program, we watched the previews for weeks and got pulled in.  So at 8 pm we were sitting around the table eating and glued to the T.V.  The program started with Noah and the ark and Noah telling his family about creation, the ark was full of holes and they were soaking wet.  Jason and I both looked at each other and then at the kids and said that didn’t happen.  Now it is possible that Noah knew about Adam and Eve, but it was not told by Noah because Moses wrote the book of Genesis, the second thing in Genesis 6:14 the bible tells us that God told Noah to “Make thee an ark of gopher wood; rooms shalt thou make in the ark, and shalt pitch it within and without with pitch, what does that mean – it means the boat didn’t leak, they were warm and dry.  Also Noah was not free to walk around on the outside of the ark, in Genesis 7:16 the bible tells us “And they that went in, went in male and female of all flesh, as God had commanded him:  and the Lord shut him in, so what does that mean – it means that God closed the door and only God could open the door – Genesis 8:16 “Go forth of the ark, thou, and they wife, and they sons, and they sons’ wives with thee.”
 
The story then jumps to Abraham and how God told him to “Get thee out of thy country, and from thy kindred, and from thy father’s house, unto a land that I will shew thee”, Genesis 12:1.  Now Lot, his wife and their family went the Abraham, Sarah and their family and they hit on Lot being captured and then his family going to Sodom and Gomorrah.  The program depicts the Angles as warriors with great swords and mowing down people so that Lot and his family could get out as God is destroying the cities.  At this point we are telling Aaron and Ashleigh, that a lot of what they are seeing is not biblical and that Hollywood has put a spin on almost everything we had watched.  We explained that God didn’t destroy the cities until after Lot and his family had left and were well away, now we know they were close enough to see the destruction because in Genesis 19:26 the bible says “But his wife looked back from behind him, and she became a pillar of salt” –  so they did get that part right. 
 
Next on the History Channels time line are Abraham and Hagar and the birth of Ishmael and them being sent out into the wilderness.  Sarah then gives birth to Isaac and the story picks up in Genesis 22:2, “And he said, Take now thy son, thine only son Isaac, whom thou lovest, and get thee into the land of Moriah; and offer him there for a burnt offering upon one of the mountains which I will tell thee of.”  Now in the story by History channel states Abraham told Sarah he was taking Isaac and they were going to make a sacrifice to God and they leave – now like I said they got some stuff accurate.  They go up the mountain and Abraham puts him on the alter and while this is going on it goes back and forth from them to Sarah and Sarah is frantic she has figured out that Abraham plans on using Isaac as a sacrifice, because he didn’t take an animal with him – Sarah was never the wiser about the sacrifice, Abraham never told her and she never questioned if an animal was taken with them.  Sarah then runs after them also didn’t happen because the place where they went was three days journey, in Genesis 22:4 the bible tells us “Then on the third day Abraham lifted up his eyes, and saw the place afar off.”  Right before Abraham sacrifices Isaac and the Angel of the Lord told him to stop and he turns and there is a lamb, now in Genesis 22:13 the bible says “And Abraham lifted up his eyes, and looked, and behold behind him a ram caught in a thicket by his horns:  and Abraham went and took the ram, and offered him up for a burnt offering in the stead of his son.  I guess Hollywood couldn’t find a ram with horns so they used the next best thing? 
 
The timeline then jumps to Moses and the book of Exodus, not sure why they decided to leave out so much important history.  They could have talked about Isaac and Rebekah and the birth of Esau and Jacob and how Jacob received Isaac’s blessing.  They could have talked about Jacob and Leah and Rachel.  They could have talked about Joseph and his coat of many colors and the famine that was in Egypt, but they skipped all of that.  So we are now at Moses and how he was rescued from the Nile River and brought up as a prince of Egypt and how he killed an Egyptian and left the body for someone else to discard of – when in fact he took care of it himself.  Then is shows Moses in the dead of night in a tent and then he hears the voice of God and he is standing before the burning bush, now I know most people have seen the Ten Commandments,  with Charlton Hesston, well we think the Ten Commandments did a better job of portraying Moses than the History channel did.  Anyways he then leaves and goes back to Egypt and confronts Pharaoh.  This will be the last discrepancy, because I stopped watching it after this, they are standing at the Nile River and Moses asks Aaron to put his staff in the river while Pharaoh is bathing and the river turns to blood.  This didn’t happen this way, Moses was face to face with Pharaoh when he turned the river into blood the bible tells us in Exodus 7:19 – 20 “And the Lord spake unto Moses, Say unto Aaron, Take thy rod, and stretch out thine hand upon the waters of Egypt, upon their streams, upon their rivers and upon their ponds, and upon all their pools of water, that they may become blood;  and that they may be blood throughout all the land of Egypt, both in vessels of wood, and vessels of stone.  And Moses and Aaron did so, as the Lord commanded; and the lifted up the rod, and smote the waters that were in the river, in the sight of Pharaoh, and in the sight of his servants; and all the waters that were in the river were turned to blood.”
 
I couldn’t stand to watch any more, I was so disappointed.  Why do they think that the spin they put on the story is so much better than the actual account of the events.  This is History, true History.  God gave us the written word so we know that it is accurate and that it is factual.  I am not sure why they are doing this program, I am not sure if we will watch anymore  of it, because if all they are going to do is put just enough bible in their story to call it fact then I am not interested.  If you know your bible and know the difference and know what really happened versus what Hollywood said happened, that is one thing, but there are so many people within the viewing audience that has no clue, they see it on T.V. and its fact.  It kind of reminds me of the State Farm commercial where the girls says, “they can’t put anything on the internet that isn’t true”, some people say the same thing about the History, Nation Geographic and The Learning Channel (TLC).  Just because it is on the educational/documentary type channels does not make it all fact.  Again I will say they did use some actually events from the bible, they just put their own spin on the story and it was very hard to follow, the frames at times were short and choppy and I will admit the fight seen with the angles and the people of Sodom was very entertaining.  But I think that is what it boils down to is entertainment, this program is for entertainment, and it does have some measure of truth mixed in with a lot of dramatization.  If you continue to watch the program, or if you missed it, tune in next Sunday at 8 pm on the History channel and you decide for yourself.  The jury is still out at my house whether we will continue to watch it or not.  Enjoy!

Wednesday, February 27, 2013

Frustration



How many of us feel like pulling our hair out in the mornings?
 
I have to say that at times I get very frustrated, but not nearly as much as my poor husband.  I have to be at work at 7:00 am, so that leaves Jason with getting the kids ready for school.  A typical day for us is get up at 6:20; I get my computer up and running to start my day at 7 – that generally takes 10 minutes to do.  I then go upstairs and pack lunches and have backpacks and lunch boxes in the truck by 7:40.  Great I have 20 minutes to get the kids up, dressed, fed and almost ready to go.  I go into Aaron’s room and turn on the light and start to sing Rise and Shine and Give God the Glory and then leave and go into Ashleigh’s room and sing it again – they hate this.  They get up and head to the couch, where they try to lay back down and get 5 more minutes, but I am right behind them fussing, you have 15 minutes to get ready and get something to eat before I have to go to work.  Aaron, bless his heart, usually gets right up and gets himself dressed – Ashleigh on the other hand, it’s a fight, I don’t want to wear that I want to wear this and then changes her mind.  It does not good to pick out her clothes the night before, done tried that.  Now the kids are ready, all but putting on shoes, eating breakfast (if they want any), taking medicine, and brushing teeth.  Once the kids are finished Jason sends them downstairs for me to help them put their shoes on and fix Ashleigh’s hair.  When I put it down on paper it doesn’t seem that bad – LOL.  But it’s the feeling you have of being late, of someone not listening to you and having to repeat something over and over again.  It is amazing, most mornings, they get out of the house on time and no one is late, how we do it I have no idea, but it gets done.  Have you ever stopped to think, maybe, this is how God might feel when He is dealing with us?  How many times has God had to tell you to do something?  I know from personal experience sometimes several.  Sometimes we question if we are truly hearing Gods call and sometimes we are running the other way and not wanting to listen.  I know how I feel when my children are not listening to me or they out right defy me – I know the since of exasperation I feel and then it slowly turns into anger.  Do I make God mad, does it start small with a since of frustration and then grow.  I shudder to think that I could displease my Lord – but I do it every day - but we are human and even if we are striving to be more like Christ we always fall short.  God knows we are imperfect and He knows that we will never be perfect.  I am sure He is very displeased or disappointed with me from time to time.  I know I don’t spend as much time reading my bible as I should and I don’t spend nearly enough time on my knees in prayer or in my prayer closet.  Does this displease God, yes it does.  God always wants to hear from us, even if it’s just a simple, Lord it’s me again, having a busy day, but wanted to stop and say Thanks or please help me through this report or call, keep my family safe or how about that special request or person that God has placed on our heart or mind to pray for.  God never said our prayers had to be long and lengthy and full of eloquent words.  When Jesus showed us how to pray in Matthew, this was a short prayer, but it came from the heart and He was sincere with his requests.
 
Matthew 6:9-13
After this manner therefore pray ye:  Our Father which art in heaven, Hallowed be thy name.  Thy kingdom come.  Thy will be done in earth, as [it is] in heaven.  Give us this day our daily bread.  And forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors.  And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil: For thine is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory, for ever.  Amen.
 
More important, I try to instill in Aaron and Ashleigh the importance of prayer.  Jason and I have to remind them almost every time before they eat, pray!  And before we go to bed every night we pray.  Each one of the kids, along with mom and dad, has our own special request for prayer.  We make it a point to show how important it is to pray for those requests, no matter how insignificant we might think they are (praying for Ella – Nana’s dog) it is still important to them.  I also try to pray in the morning before they go to school, now I will admit it is more often forgotten, but I do try to pray with them.  I will admit I struggle daily, but God never promised an easy road.  I can only strive to be more diligent and pray that it is enough.  As always please keep us in your prayers as we seek to do God’s will, whatever that may be.

Wednesday, February 20, 2013

Thankful

Thankful ... Where do I begin, I am so thankful for so many things.  I am thankful most of all for a Sovereign God, that He stood in my place, that He bore my sins, that He saved me!  I am thankful for my loving husband and two beautiful children - I love you very much.  I am thankful for my job - even though I hate it at times.  I am thankful for a roof over my head, clothes on my back and food in my belly.  I am thankful for good friends and family - who are there for me in the good and bad times.  I am thankful for the life God has given me to live - I have been given this one life to glorify Him in every way.

I Chronicles 16:8
Give thanks unto the LORD, call upon His name, make known His deeds among the people. 

I am thankful that I can call on His name.  I am thankful that I can go directly to Him with all of my needs and desires.  I am thankful that He is always available to talk to, I don't have to wait until He has time, because He always has time.  I am thankful that He answers prayer - I will always be amazed that God would listen to me and answer my prayers.  I am not always obedient and I am not always so thankful, but thru my short comings God sees me worthy enough to listen.  I was no one until God made me someone and I am thankful that He loves me.

And I want to thank those that come to read my simple thoughts from time to time.  I thank you for allowing me to share with you what is on my heart and mind. 

Wednesday, February 13, 2013

The Vision

 
We had our 2013-2014 school enrollment meeting last night, and Mr. Jeffreys talked about the vision for our school.  We love FSCS (Fayetteville Street Christian School), we are like one big family.  I am glad that some men had a vision years ago to start a Christian school, I am sure like most it started small, but we have grown and now have over 200 students enrolled and are expecting more for the new school year.  I am thankful to those who answered the Call and started this school as an alternative to public school.  Before Jason and I had the kids, we were asked by a financial adviser what our short term goals were and the first thing we said was to be able to put our children (when ever we had any) in a Christian school, now at that time we didn't know what school or where we just knew that public school was not an option.  A few years ago my best friend, Terri, was looking into putting her son into public school because FSCS didn't have enough students and was looking at shutting its doors - But GOD, and that is all I have to say - But GOD!  God gave them a few rough years, but after that they stared to explode, per Mr. Jeffreys, we have seen a 100% increase in the last 4 1/2 years.  That is amazing and again I will say But GOD - He is so worthy of our praise!  He who is Sovereign and knows at all times what is best for us.  I will never cease to be amazed by my GOD.  Our little school is growing by leaps and bounds and last night we listened as we were told there would be a possibility of new construction - we are busting at the seams and have no place to put these dear little children, I say this is a good problem to have.  We also discussed updates to the facilities and  our last fund raiser, "Pancake Day", where we raised over $13,000, that's $3,000 more than last year.  How is it we can continue on this path with the bad economy and loss of jobs - But GOD!  God has been so good to our little Christian school and because we have dedicated men and woman who share a common vision and goal and who are sensitive to the Holy Spirit, this is how it is all possible.  Please pray for our little school - for the administrative staff, the teachers, the parents and most of all each and every student - they are our future.

Thursday, February 7, 2013

This is the day that the Lord hath made!

This is the day that the LORD hath made, we will rejoice and be glad in it.  - Psalm 118:24
 
Yesterday was Aaron’s 7th birthday; I can’t believe how big he has gotten.  My little boy is turning into a little man right before my eyes.  I thank God for my children and I love them soooo much!  As I studied yesterday I thought this was a perfect lesson and I thought I will use Aaron’s birthday as a way to illustrate how we shall rejoice in everyday He has given us.    Who would have thought that such a simple verse could be so profound?  I have heard this verse sung in a song and I have even read it hundreds of times, but never stopped to really think about the words and how they affect my everyday life.  Do we really stop and think about who has given us each day?  I don’t think most of us do.  We just get up because the alarm clock has gone off or one of our children is demanding our attention.   We don’t think about what we are doing, it’s the same every day, day in and day out, it is all routine.  We don’t think about what is going to happen or who we will speak with or who we might meet or how our actions may affect someone else.  We don’t even give God the praise, glory or honor He deserves.  God has given us each day.  Each day we are given we start it fresh, it is always different than the day before and we will never repeat it (no Groundhog Days!).  So what should we do with each day God has given us?  We should cherish each and every moment, good or bad.  We should praise God from whom all blessings flow!  We should make sure we are in constant prayer and feeding on the bread of life! We should make sure that everything we are doing, saying, seeing, hearing, etc. is glorifying our Heavenly Father!  No matter if it’s a rainy day, a sunny day a snowy day, a rainbow day, or your birthday we should always remember it is a day that God has given us and we will rejoice and be glad in it.  It is so easy to get caught up in everyday “life”, there is always some form of ball or cheerleading practice, piano or dance, work or school and everything is routine we get complacent and then when something bad happens and God throws in a BAD DAY and we want to ask God why.  Sometimes God gives us those BAD DAYS to remind us that He is Sovereign and that He has a perfect plan for us and that He will get Glory for all, good or bad.  God gives us BAD DAYS to teach and mold us, and we learn to rely on God for everything, we should be thankful for the BAD DAYS as well as the GOOD DAYS.  God wants us to have a thankful heart regardless of the day we have or don’t have and we learn to trust Him completely.  So let us always rejoice and be glad in the days to come, because each day whether it is a birthday, a sick day, a joyous day or even a grievous day, they are all a gift from God!

Thursday, January 31, 2013

Resume

Well, I have done it.  I finally submitted my resume to Fayetteville Street Christian School - FSCS.  I have not taught in a public setting since 1997, yeah it’s been a while, but I have been teaching Sunday school and children’s church for over 10 years and our Wednesday night children’s class - Kids for Christ (KFC) for the last 3 years.  I have always loved teaching and now that my children are students at FSCS, it would be so nice to be able to be near them every day!  I know it would be a cut in pay, but if it is the Lords’ will then HE will make a way.  I have been praying for a new position at UnitedHealth Group - UHC, and have been applying for different positions within the company, but have never gotten any positive feedback - always "sorry the position has already been filled, or we are no longer offering the position as this time".  I just wonder if maybe the reason I have not been able to move out of my current position is because I am not supposed to stay, but move on.  I would love to go back to teaching, but it is scary, we have become used to a certain way of living and it would mean that we would have to give up some “play pretty’s” and go without. Not that going without is a bad thing, because it can be a good thing.  Going without teaches us to rely on God more.  We take many things for granted when we live comfortably and there is nothing wrong with living comfortable, but when we rely on ourselves and not God then that is a problem.  Last night the Preacher (revival w/ Tony Finney) used the song Trust and Obey all throughout his message (it was an awesome message) and his text came from Genesis Chapter 22:1-19.  I have heard this story a million times, how Abraham took Isaac to sacrifice him to God.  Abraham trusted God so much to provide Himself a sacrifice (Genesis 22:8); all Abraham had to do was obey.  How many times do we not obey God because of our lack of trust?  How many times do we question God’s judgment and ask ourselves does HE really want that of me?  Like Brother Finney said last night we want our children to look at us and see that we have such a close relationship with God that they desire that same relationship.  So here I am turning in a resume, which has been in the works for almost a year, because I want to trust that God knows what is best for me and obey the command, if He gives it, to leave my well paid job for one of Service to Him.  Please pray for our family and for me as I seek God’s will for our future.  I know God gives us the desire of our hearts if we “Trust and Obey”.

 

Friday, January 25, 2013

New Year's Resolution

Children are a gift from God and mine are just exceptional.  Last night during KFC (Kids For Christ) - this is our Wednesday night children’s ministry - Crystal did a new year’s Party.  The kids got to eat sandwiches and chips, cupcakes and doughnuts and who knows what else (Thanks Aunt Crystal for filling them up with junk and then sending them home - LOL) and they made a door hanger.  The door hanger was a list of things the kids would do for the new year, for example the first one was I will help my family ______.  Ashleigh, bless her heart, only filled out the first one, which was "wash the dishes".  She loves to help mommy in the kitchen, from cooking to cleaning.  And she loves it even better when we can use her "Easy Baker" that she got for Christmas.  She does not mind the cleanup at the end.  Aaron on the other hand, filled his out completely and here is his list, word for word....

I will help my family with paiy the taxs



I will give some of my money to the preacher



I will learn all new ten Bible verses.   (Aaron added the ten part all by himself)



I will help others



They are so sweet; I could just eat them up.  God has blessed Jason and I with very sweet, thoughtful and loving children and I pray that God will use them.  We used to say that Aaron was going to be our little preacher boy, he has such a tender heart and who knows what God has in store for my little man.  Please keep them in your prayers.